Thomas Kingston's family make their feelings clear in their first public comments since his death

Thomas Kingston Death in 2024

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Ed Griffiths

By Ed Griffiths


Published: 04/02/2025

- 09:53

Thomas took his own life at his parents' home in 2024

The family of Thomas Kingston have spoken of their wish for their son to be remembered for "the big smile on his face" in their first public comments since his death last year.

In an emotional interview, Martin Kingston described his son as a "joyful, giving, full of life and caring person".


The 45-year-old, who was married to Lady Gabriella at Windsor Castle in 2019, died by taking his own life at his parents' home.

Martin said: "I would like him to be remembered as someone with a big smile on his face, while helping people to do difficult things."

Thomas Kingston and Lady Gabriella

The family of Thomas Kingston have spoken of their wish for their son to be remembered for "the big smile on his face" in their first public comments since his death in 2024

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The family revealed they received over 400 letters and cards following Thomas's death, many sharing previously unknown stories about their son.

Jill recalled having lunch with her son on the day of his death, saying he was "normal" and "fun," with nothing raising suspicion.

After lunch, Thomas and his mother fell asleep on the sofa near the fireplace, while his father went for a walk.

Thomas had woken to unload items from his car into his parents' out-house, but concern grew when he did not return.

Thomas Kingston

The family revealed they received over 400 letters and cards following Thomas's death

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His mother discovered a locked door in the outbuilding after searching for him. "I had to break the door down," Martin said in a BBC interview.

An inquest revealed Thomas had been experiencing anxiety and had recently stopped taking antidepressants prescribed by a Buckingham Palace doctor.

The coroner, Katy Skerrett, subsequently raised concerns about the adequacy of communication regarding suicide risks associated with such medications.

The Kingstons are now calling for changes in how antidepressants are prescribed, seeking better warnings about side effects and risks.

Martin Kingston highlighted concerns about medication information, stating: "There is a level of both misinformation and no information."

Thomas Kingston

Thomas Kingston took his own life at his parents' home

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The parents are advocating for patients to sign documents confirming they understand the difficulties of taking and stopping antidepressant medications.

Mrs Kingston suggested these warnings should explicitly state that "it's an extreme case, but it could lead to suicide."

The family also wants a support system in place during treatment. "We'd really like to see that a person, a spouse, a partner, a parent, a close friend, somebody, was going to walk with them through it," Mr Kingston said.

The couple said they have relied on their Christian faith to cope with their grief.

For confidential support call Samaritans on 116123 or visit www.samaritans.org

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